Three Actions for 2015

A few days ago, I went to The Reading Room to see Sandy. It was just a random post I saw on my Facebook post and, for some strange reason, I was drawn to it.

Anyhoo, I went to see Sandy and she basically gave me three things to ponder this year.

These things are actually spot on. I’ve been pondering over these three things and it’s uncanny that Sandy was able to read me.

1. Do something physical.
Sandy told me to explore to either pole dancing or belly dancing. There was a third option but I forget. She said this helps strengthen my core. She says that she can see that I’m a passionate person and doing something physical will help me tear down my self-built walls.

Admittedly, I did like attending the Zumba classes offered at work. The songs I like dancing to are the sensual ones. Maybe I can give pole dancing or belly dancing a try.

2. Do charity works.
I’ve been doing this for quite sometime (no need to elaborate what I do) but Sandy says there is one condition–no donation of money or using money to buy stuff. This is challenging because this means I need to put it either time or effort.

I really have to think hard about this. Admittedly, I have been looking for something deeper with my outreach activities. I love sharing my blessings but it doesn’t give me deep satisfaction. I’m surprised that Sandy was able to see this.

I hope I can come up with something soon.

3. Believe that you are beautiful inside and out.
This was, by far, the last thing I expected to hear. Nowhere in our conversation did this appear so I was really surprised to hear her say that. She said I don’t realize how physically beautiful I am and how inspiring I am to people. She said I should start believing it.

There’s only one person I ever shared this sentiment to and Sandy doesn’t know that person at all. When Sandy said this, I was just floored.

Sandy said life is too short and that we should do things that make us happy. She kept repeating that regrets should have no place in our lives.

I’ll make 2015 count.